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The Four Loves

Lewis, C. S. | Fontana, 1963


pp. 44 - 45

Lewis speaks of the difference between “intimate and formal courtesy.  Precisely what suits the one may be a breach of the other.  To be free and easy when you are presented to some eminent stranger is bad manners; to practice formal and ceremonial courtesies at home (‘public faces in private places’) is—and is always intended to be—bad manners.”